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Struggle turned Success

As usual I walked down the aisle at Target and the chocolate and candy was calling my name. I passed it by and went to my sister's house. She has a CANDY CUPBOARD and it's a huge weakness of mine. I was craving and trying to ignore it but I knew the sweets were there so I made a choice (I'm trying to loose this week and need to act to support that goal) and I reached for a SF pudding in her fridge.

STRUGGLE TURNED SUCCESS.

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Way to go Lisa!! Each time something like that happens, it is a victory to be celebreated!

Uki

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I have a sf pudding every single day. That is one way for me to get my chocolate in every day with out feeling guilty.

Way to go I know how hard it is to pass up that candy

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I ended up the other day having to take my mom out to lunch at a restaurant that's been the site of many horrible binge episodes...I could see the binge fantasies coming back as I read the extensive deli type menu.....I did something I've hardly ever done before....I ordered a sandwich, kept it to just that, and figured out how to have one item I was craving and fit it into the context of my daily plan...I was scared, but I pulled it off, Maajida

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Lisa,

I can so relate. My weakness is sweets--any kind of sweets. Monday night I got into jawbreakers and blew it. From there it led to fig newtons (6) and of course milk. I had to throw out the candy the next morning. I don't know what got into my head. Actually, I didn't want to slice up that watermelon.

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Good for you.
If it was me.. i would have had the chocolate then the SF pudding....

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Many sweets do that to me too. It is like once I get a taste for it, I go crazy. I have found things that don't trigger me and I have those. If there is something like birthday cake, which is my biggest trigger, I have a piece and then either send the rest home with a guest, or throw the rest away in the OUTSIDE trash can. It has to be out of the house. Another thing I do is serve everyone else first so that I only leave myself a tiny piece, that way there simply isn't anymore to eat. Period. LOL

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It is so nice to know that I'm not the only one who is crazily tempted by the sweets. I don't know if that is something that will ever go away, it will always have to be a decision for me.

On a good note.........we all realize it!! And that's very important.

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I know for me that I cannot deny myself anything - that only makes me want it more and then I end up doing something really bad.

It's all about moderation and re-training our mind to adjust to just one piece of candy, or slice of cake, pie, pizza or whatever our weakness is..as we say this is a journey, not a race, and together we CAN do this!

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Success for the day... was offered a chocolate scotcharoo bar and turned it down!!!!! normally when people bring in treats we know ahead of time they will have them at break and I can pep talk myself but this offer just came out of the blue. So that was good

struggle. Went to get DD bday cake after work at SWM Got a few groceries and got verrrry hungry. So I got my pepper turkey sandwich meat and some grapes like I had planned and munched a little on the way home on those. Used up some points I hadnt planned on but it could have been much worse. i felt like I had to feel on the fuller side all the time today. I think I am more a bored eater than a stressed one. Working on a production line some of the jobs are pretty boring and I am not a stand still kind of girl.

now If I can hold out the rest of the night all will be good.

Laura I read your op, cleaning is a double bonus. It keeps you from eating by being busy and you earn ap's for it too. Hope all is going good!!!

See you all later
Chels

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Sounds like you are all doing well facing your challenges. I know how it is to get into something sweet. That happened last weekend with baked beans and cake. Both were very sweet and I took small amts at first but then decided I needed a second helping. Well guess where my 2 # gain this week came from.

Pat

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Chelsie,

I think you did very well. If you were hungry, you needed to eat, and you made a good choice foodwise.

I know I need to be fuller too. I often choose foods that have a lot of bulk for not very many calories. I also am a bored eater. I don't eat when I get emotional, but I do want to eat when I am just sitting around. Gotta stay busy!

Uki

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thanks uki,

I just wished I could get passed the bored eating. I was drinking a lot of water at work just to feel fuller and it is good for you but then I was having to pee everyt 1/2 hour I was drinking so much. That really doesnt fly on a production like because someone else had to take my spot every time.

So I may go over a few points each day but I still feel in control. I dont feel like I wasted another week. Little by little, inch by inch, pretty soon there will be none there too pinch!!!!